Ease your teen into babysitting. Being a mother’s helper (watching one child while the parents are home) “will help your child get a better sense of whether he or she is ready,” Wilson stresses. “Some teens just aren’t comfortable watching newborns,” says Sarah Hawley, vice president for communications at Babysitters.com.
Look into their motives. “The main reason [they want the job] should be because they love to care for others, ” Wilson says. If your teen plays well with younger siblings, likes to read aloud, do puzzles, teach friends to play computer games, or dotes on her baby cousin, she’ll probably be a great sitter.
Encourage them to get trained. A class (see Resources) will teach them how to handle every aspect of childcare, from first-aid emergencies to negotiating pay rates.
Make sure your teen is safe. “Between the ages of 12 and 14, parents should be actively involved,” says Thiers.
Claire Celsi, mother of 15-year-old sitter Bailey, was extremely vigilant. “I talk to the parent on the phone first to make sure I know where they live and how long they’ll be gone.” Make sure your teens use their instincts. “Teach your child not to be afraid to call you, or call 911 if something bad happens.”
Babysitting is a great choice for all young teens. It can help build problem-solving skills—not only with the kids they’re sitting for, but with the parents as well.
Joan Anderson 07/13/07
Great article! I think what’s really interesting about it is how it encourages parents to get to know their kids before they decide if they can do this job. It’s not the actual babysitting you have to consider, it’s the responsibility. I would definitely enroll my twin 12-year-olds in a babysitting course first.
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