Some guidance counselors believe tutoring should be used when efforts to use the schools’ services have failed or fallen short, while others say parents have to do what they think is best for their child, though they admit that sometimes the parents’ needs and competitive streak often cloud their judgment.
“Personally, I think teens should use tutors as a last resort,” stresses Nick Kourabas, lead counselor at Mamaroneck High School in Mamaroneck, New York. “I’d hope the student would go to the teacher first for extra help and failing that, find a peer tutor before moving onto the private sector.” Many schools offer special help from parents and National Honor Society students, as well as learning labs open beyond school hours.
Student Tutors Pros and Cons
They are generally affordable, costing $10 to $20 per hour.
They may have had the same teacher and aced the class.
Their schedules may be overbooked.
They have little to no formal teaching skills.
The embarrassment factor—your child may not want others at school to know they’re having problems.
Private Tutors Pros and Cons
Your child will get personalized attention in your home.
Private tutors are often former teachers recommended by the school.
They’re expensive. Rates vary depending on the city and quality of tutor but you can expect to pay anywhere from $55 to $150 an hour.
If they were not affiliated with your child’s school, they may not be familiar with your child’s requirements.

Alysha Peterson 04/14/08
My two kids tutor each other. Every day when they come home, my girl, 14, who’s good in math goes over that day’s math assignment with my son, 16, who’s good in English and vice versa. I think it’s been good for the two of them to work together like this –there seem to be fewer fights!
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